From feminist thought to gay and queer theories

Growing up with a particular feminist involvement affects the way you perceive and participate in LGBT and Queer theories. I know for example, that my situated point of view is different from the one of a person who never experienced or participate in feminist movements or thought. The problems begin when you refuse to choose between them.

I am very interested in knowing if anyone in this blog community has encountered the same problem or has any opinions or suggestions as to how it is possible to get out of this in-between.